Homosexuality and destroying faith

Discussion for Christian perspectives on ethical issues such as abortion, euthanasia, sexuality, and so forth.

If somebody is homosexual, and you don't seem able to convince them that it's wrong, what do you do?

Push the issue and if necessary, destroy their faith to avoid tarnishing Christianity's image.
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Point out that they're sinners while wondering about the sharp plank-like pain in your eye.
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Try to help them out yourself, preferably without referring them to a site which makes them feel threatened (Like NARTH, K)
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Get into Kmart mode and start sneering.
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Give a "You're going to hell" speech and walk away.
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Deborah wrote:Yes but the bible is like a personal message from god to each of us.
I don't fully agree. The Bible was God's message to the ancients, from which we can glean many insights about God and His will. I wouldn't say it's really "personal" to a 21st century person, though.
Deborah wrote:It is Gods decision. The bible is the instructions he asks that we chose to live by.
Yes.
Deborah wrote:he demanded we not judge each other, that is his job.
You are confusing judging behaviors with judging people. The former is OK; the latter is God's job.
Deborah wrote:I never said be worried about your own salvation not anyone elses.
Good.
Deborah wrote:But we are to live our lives by mere example.
I wouldn't say "mere". We should certainly be good examples, though.
Deborah wrote:What good example are we when we say hey you are living in sin, when our own lives are not much better.
I was thinking more like "SSB is a sin, and you seem to be involved in it at the moment", rather than "you are living in sin"...

One does not have to be perfect to make moral judgments about behaviors. We just shouldn't be hypocrites by implying moral superiority.
Deborah wrote:To break one law of god is to break them all.
Certainly. I didn't say that we should judge ourselves as better, just that we could validly judge a behavior as wrong.
Deborah wrote:best we can do for ourselves and others to pray for define guidance.
Think we can't make vouch for doctrine in ways besides example? See these, straight from the Bible. Not that prayer shouldn't be a part of this, but we can still come to conclusions through study.
Deborah wrote:Our job on earth is to Lead out lives by example, not to condem others,
Yes, but this doesn't address how we should approach sinful behaviors in others. Don't confuse sin and sinner.
Deborah wrote:to love being part of praying, and above all learn to do all that was just mentioned.
I think you have made the same false dilemma fallacy I mentioned earlier. There is a difference between hypocritical judgmentalism and defending sound doctrine.
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jerickson314

I don't understand what your saying in the last two statements.
What you must understand is I am struggling to understand what it is god wants from me. He saved me, but for what. I even dare to ask why he bothered.

Do you know who you are?
I don't.

Do you feel worthy?
I don't.
was thinking more like "SSB is a sin, and you seem to be involved in it at the moment", rather than "you are living in sin"...

One does not have to be perfect to make moral judgments about behaviors. We just shouldn't be hypocrites by implying moral superiority.
SSB ? sorry confused

What I have written falls in line with my belief we are not automatically condemmed. We can repent. I believe even at the 2nd reserection it is possable to repent. Many will have their eyes open for the first time.
I am well aware I am a sinner, and I am not being an hypocrite and implying moral superiority. God does not need us to defend him, he is bigger than that.
Church tradition tells us that when John, son of Zebadee and brother of James was an old man, his disciples would carry him to church in their arms.
He would simply say, “Little children, love one another”
After a time his disciples wearied at always hearing these same words and asked “Master why do you always say this?
He replied, “it is the Lords command, and if done, it is enough”
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Deborah wrote:I don't understand what your saying in the last two statements.
I was basically saying that it is possible to "judge" a behavior (such as homosexual activity) as wrong without judging a person as inferior. Telling an active homosexual that his or her homosexual activity is wrong is not an inherently judgmental activity. Much of the time, it is done for the wrong reasons and with the wrong attitude. However, this doesn't mean we must passively let others sin without telling them about their own sin. We can give them a godly warning about the sinfulness of their behavior.

(Of course, we do also need to listen when others notice sin in our own lives.)

You seemed to be saying that one was either being judgemental and hypocritical, or kept silent about sin in others. It is possible to have a godly attitude of fellowship and accountability.
Deborah wrote:What you must understand is I am struggling to understand what it is god wants from me. He saved me, but for what. I even dare to ask why he bothered.
I think everyone struggles with this at times. Prayer and fellowship are always helpful.
Deborah wrote:Do you know who you are?
I don't.
I'm always learning.
Deborah wrote:Do you feel worthy?
I don't.
No one is worthy. That's what's so amazing about Christ's sacrifice!
Deborah wrote:SSB ? sorry confused
SSB = same-sex behavior. If I say "homosexuality", you might think I'm talking about the attraction part, which actually isn't a sin. If I use SSA (same-sex attraction) while talking about attraction and SSB (same-sex behavior) while talking about behavior, my intent is clear. Given that the person I'm talking to is familiar with the terminology, of course. :wink:
Deborah wrote:What I have written falls in line with my belief we are not automatically condemmed. We can repent.
This is most certainly true! That's what the 1 Corinthians 6:11 reference in the earlier post was about. There is a difference between "you are engaging in sin right now" and "you are condemned to hell".
Deborah wrote:I believe even at the 2nd reserection it is possable to repent. Many will have their eyes open for the first time.
I don't know that this is true.

Hebrews 9:27 seems to contradict the idea that people can be saved after death. Anytime before then is fair game, though. We have the story of the thief on the cross to tell us this.
Deborah wrote:I am well aware I am a sinner, and I am not being an hypocrite and implying moral superiority.
I wasn't accusing you of this. I thought you were accusing everyone who declared homosexuality (SSB) to be a sin of this! This group included me. I was just clarifying that it is possible to "condemn" a particular sin without having an improper attitude. This is distinct from condemning a person as being inferior, or as having no hope for salvation.

Sorry for any misunderstanding.
Deborah wrote:God does not need us to defend him, he is bigger than that.
Certainly true.
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jerickson314 wrote: Not true. Twin studies show that 20%-60% (depending on the study) of SSA (same-sex attracted) people with an identical (same genes) twin have a SSA twin. 40%-80% of the time, in every study, a SSA person has a twin with the exact same genes who is straight.
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The studies that have been done to try to prove that homosexuality is solely genetic aren't conclusive (check msn for verification). If there were a homosexual gene, it would be passed down and inherited with the same probability as hereditary diseases, but it isn't. Are you going to claim that it's a recessive gene?
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ochotseat wrote:The studies that have been done to try to prove that homosexuality is solely genetic aren't conclusive
Yeah, that's exactly what I've been saying...
ochotseat wrote:(check msn for verification).
I don't trust Microsoft, but I don't need to on this one anyway.
ochotseat wrote:If there were a homosexual gene, it would be passed down and inherited with the same probability as hereditary diseases, but it isn't. Are you going to claim that it's a recessive gene?
My whole post was supporting the view that it's not just genetic. Did you not catch this?
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Assume for the moment homosexuality was a genetic predisposition. Would this really make a difference to the moral responsibility of a Christian predisposed biologically to homosexuality, to refrain from their immoral fleshly desires?

When I read Scripture, I see in Paul's words that we have an inherent desire to sin simply by being human. For example, "There is no one righteous, not even one; there is no one who understands, no one who seeks God." (Romans 3:10-11) Did Paul know everyone in order to say noone seeks God? No. He knows we in our fleshly human state possess sinful desires. He seems especially clear on this in Romans 7:21-25:
  • So I find this law at work: When I want to do good, evil is right there with me. For in my inner being I delight in God's law; but I see another law at work in the members of my body, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within my members. What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body of death? Thanks be to God—through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, I myself in my mind am a slave to God's law, but in the sinful nature a slave to the law of sin.
So to respond to my own question above, I think regardless of whether we are genetically predisposed towards sin (which there seems to be quite strong Scripture support for), we are still encouraged to live according to the Spirit.

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jerickson314 wrote: I don't trust Microsoft, but I don't need to on this one anyway.
It's basic research.
Also compare the statistical correlation to that of being overweight: overweightness is given a 60%-80% genetic correlation rating.
Being overweight doesn't really have a genetic basis.
Also, it doesn't really matter from a moral perspective whether SSA is genetic.
It matters, because homosexual activists want to use genetics as a premise to support pro-homosexuality legislation.
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Kurieuo wrote: I think regardless of whether we are genetically predisposed towards sin (which there seems to be quite strong Scripture support for), we are still encouraged to live according to the Spirit.
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That's the obligation we have to free will.
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ochotseat wrote:
Also compare the statistical correlation to that of being overweight: overweightness is given a 60%-80% genetic correlation rating.
Being overweight doesn't really have a genetic basis.
Of course. Correlation doesn't prove causation, as I have mentioned before.

Nonetheless, certain genetic factors (such as metabolism rate) do certainly have an influence on whether someone will be overweight or not. Sort of like how certain genetic factors (such as temperament) may influence the likelihood of SSA developing, without directly causing it.
ochotseat wrote:
Also, it doesn't really matter from a moral perspective whether SSA is genetic.
It matters, because homosexual activists want to use genetics as a premise to support pro-homosexuality legislation.
What I meant was that their arguments are still flawed even if we make the false assumption that SSA is genetic. SSB can still be wrong even if SSA is genetic. It's just that the research shows that SSA isn't purely genetic.

This is basically what Kurieou was saying in the last post. Sorry I didn't elaborate well enough in mine.
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jerickson314 wrote: Sort of like how certain genetic factors (such as temperament) may influence the likelihood of SSA developing, without directly causing it.
Tempers are inherited?
SSB can still be wrong even if SSA is genetic.
Regardless, same sex behavior (see? spelling it fully out isn't that bad) is still legal. Homosexuality isn't classified as a mental disease anymore, so if it's found to have a direct genetic cause, it might even end up becoming listed as an idiosyncrasy.
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ochotseat wrote:
jerickson314 wrote: Sort of like how certain genetic factors (such as temperament) may influence the likelihood of SSA developing, without directly causing it.
Tempers are inherited?
New Oxford American Dictionary wrote:temperament |?temp(?)r?m?nt|
noun
1 a person's or animal's nature, esp. as it permanently affects their behavior : she had an artistic temperament.
• the tendency to behave angrily or emotionally : he had begun to show signs of temperament.
2 the adjustment of intervals in tuning a piano or other musical instrument so as to fit the scale for use in different keys; in equal temperament, the octave consists of twelve equal semitones.
Here I was referring to definition 1, before the bullet point. I also didn't say that this was entirely genetically determined, but it is certainly influenced by genetics. Nonetheless, I don't see why it really matters.
ochotseat wrote:
SSB can still be wrong even if SSA is genetic.
Regardless, same sex behavior (see? spelling it fully out isn't that bad) is still legal.
This has little to do with any genetic basis that could be found for SSA. (I also did spell it out fully in an earlier post in this thread. I thought the context would be enough for people to understand.) There is also the question of whether SSB could be banned at all, when we don't ban consensual premarital sex or adultery.
ochotseat wrote:Homosexuality isn't classified as a mental disease anymore, so if it's found to have a direct genetic cause, it might even end up becoming listed as an idiosyncrasy.
It won't be found to have such a cause, but again I don't see why it matters.
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jerickson314 wrote: I also didn't say that this was entirely genetically determined, but it is certainly influenced by genetics.
Where'd you hear this?
There is also the question of whether SSB could be banned at all, when we don't ban consensual premarital sex or adultery.
Same sex behavior has never been entirely banned. Sodomy was forbidden in some Rocky Mountain, Midwestern, and southern states, but homosexuals were permitted to engage in other forms of intimacy.

Here's why the Supreme Court's invalidation of any state prohibitions on sodomy was a bad idea...


Texas sodomy and the marriage amendment
Armstrong Williams
July 11, 2003

Does the right to pursue one's individual morality transcend traditional social values? Is the state barred from enforcing the moral consensus? More to the point, is this a land where pornography, drugs and prostitution should be unregulated, where women should be allowed to have abortions at any time during their pregnancy, where same-sex couples can join together in marriage? If you accept that the state cannot enforce moral codes of conduct, then the answer to all of these questions is yes.

This point was not lost on Justice Antonin Scalia whose dissenting opinion accused the court of using judicial fiat to shape civil institutions - such as marriage - that have traditionally been regulated by the state. Scalia accused the majority of signing on to the homosexual agenda and effectively choosing sides in the culture war. He warned that the majority opinion could lay the legal framework for questioning all state laws that punish moral indiscretions, such as bigamy, incest and prostitution.

In short, Scalia made the profound observation that since state law creates our civil institutions, they ought to be managed by the state; excepting action that violates the Constitution. The founding fathers had very definite ideas on such matters. When they created this country, the founding fathers envisioned the state government as arbiters of much of our daily existence. The benefits of an extensive state government were straightforward: the state government would be more directly accountable to the concerns of the citizens and, therefore, better able to ensure the democratic process. This would provide a counterbalance to the federal government and help guard against the tyranny that our founding fathers so feared.

By stepping in and dictating how the state government regulates its civil institutions, the unelected, unaccountable Supreme Court justices have trampled on the democratic process. Rather than allowing the citizens of this country to carry out a debate on the morality of same-sex unions and to decide these issues for themselves, the Supreme Court has dictated the outcome.

We need not accept this rather tyrannical intrusion. There are, in fact, some very practical things our democratically-elected representatives can do to help ensure that the citizens of this country continue to have a voice in the culture war that is raging around them. For starters, they can lend public support to Rep. Musgrave's proposal to define marriage as a union between man and woman.

Senate Majority leader Bill Frist (R-Tenn.) has already done this, telling ABC's "This Week" program, "I very much feel that marriage is a sacrament and that sacrament should extend and can extend to that legal entity of a union between what (has) traditionally in our Western values been defined as between a man and a woman. So I would support the amendment."

For this very common sense statement Frist is being assaulted by the gay rights Cosa Nostra. They accuse Frist of gay bashing, but they miss the point. Frist's remarks were not about anger or spite. They were simply about recognizing the social and sacred function of marriage between man and woman. This is the bedrock of our society. On this point, we must maintain our resolve. Because it seems that those men - and woman - who are the most vigorous defenders of this country's Constitution, the Supreme Court justices, have no intention of defending the state's rights to manage civil institutions. The court remains hamstrung by the unwavering belief that the state cannot punish that which it deems immoral.

It is this same stance that may lead the court to revisit all state laws that punish acts such as bigamy, incest and prostitution. It would be nice if the Supreme Court could find some way to consider the democratic process they purport to defend. Instead, they have chosen a far more precarious position. They are, at once, the most visible protectors of our Constitution, and a passive destroyer of our society.


Cal Thomas
March 27, 2003
Law, liberty, and license

While the war overseas continues, so does another war at home.

The latest battle in the culture war was fought Wednesday (March 26) on Supreme Court turf. At issue is a Texas "homosexual conduct law" that forbids sodomy.

Before the Supreme Court rules that the Founders had the right to practice sodomy in mind when they wrote the Constitution, we should ask where the chipping away at law and morality is leading us.

Once sodomy is made legal, what's next? How about polygamy? As we have been reminded in the case of Utah's Elizabeth Smart and her abduction by a practicing polygamist, there are people who believe they have a right to that sexual and relational preference. If sodomy is legalized, can polygamists then ask the Supreme Court to end the prohibition against their "right" to engage in sex with and "marry" multiple partners? If not, on what legal grounds will they be refused? To listen to the attorneys for the Texas men seeking redress of their sexual grievances, a decision to strike down the Texas anti-sodomy law should be based on "changing times" and public opinion polls.

Pedophiles who wish to have sex with children assert they should not be prohibited from doing so as long as the child "consents." There is a movement within psychiatry to have pedophilia removed from the shrinking list of "deviant" behaviors, as was done with homosexual practice. What is to prohibit them from doing so if pedophiles testify their fulfillment is being denied, and they feel discriminated against for practicing what, to them, is normal? Since truth is now in the mind and genitalia of the beholder, how can anyone with a different mindset (or different genitalia) tell anyone else how and when to engage in any sexual act in which he or she might wish to indulge?

Former Republican Sen. Alan Simpson of Wyoming wrote a column for the Wall Street Journal on March 26 in which he argued in favor of the "gay rights" position opposing the Texas law. Simpson said "the proper Republican vision of equality" is "live and let live." Simpson thinks that laws against homosexual practice "are contrary to American values protecting personal liberty .."

What Simpson argues for is not liberty but license. There is a profound difference between the traditional understanding and definition of liberty and that of license. Liberty is presumed to depend on personal responsibility. I like one of the Webster definitions of liberty: "permission to go freely within specified limits." In contrast, "license" can mean "disregard for rules of personal conduct: licentiousness."

Several conservative groups filed amicus briefs supporting the law. The one by the Family Research Council sums up the major arguments in favor: "(1) The law has historically respected and protected the marital union and has distinguished it from acts outside that union, such as fornication, adultery and sodomy. To extend to homosexual sodomy the same protections given to the marital union would undermine the definition of marriage and could lead to homosexual marriage; (2) In order to recognize a non-textual constitutional right to sodomy, the Court must find sodomy to be deeply rooted in the nation's history and tradition. In fact, laws banning sodomy are deeply rooted in our nation's history and tradition; (3) Protecting marriage, upholding morality and seeking to ensure public health is more than enough for Texas to prove it has a 'rational basis' behind its law .."

The law is supposed to set parameters for a society. In the past, the law has been viewed as something that flowed from a Law-giver, outside of the reach of humankind to create or manipulate. But since humanity now sees itself as the law-maker (the breaking of that ancient Law is now celebrated in personal behavior and encouraged in film, in magazines and on TV), who is to say whose morality, if any morality, should prevail? Having made "choice" the ultimate determiner for abortion, it would not surprise me if the Supreme Court cites the so-called "right to privacy" in this case and replays its mistake in Roe vs. Wade, which struck down another Texas law.

Adoption laws in some states now give children to same-sex couples. If the Texas sodomy law falls, "marriage" will be redefined and the demise of the human family will be complete.
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ochotseat wrote:
jerickson314 wrote: I also didn't say that this was entirely genetically determined, but it is certainly influenced by genetics.
Where'd you hear this?
Don't recall the exact source. It was probably something from NARTH.
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jerickson314 wrote:
Don't recall the exact source. It was probably something from NARTH.
Sounds a bit far-fetched. Everbody here should check out those articles. :)
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I find most christians total hypocrites that need someone to pick on and use the bible to do so......YET they get divorced as much as anyone that is not christian and REMARRY which is totally sinning IF you believe what the bible says...Talk about hypocrites....so essentially christians that remarry are committing adultery every yes EVERY day of their life there after...yet they constantly point to the bible to brow beat gays.....this is one of many reasons why it is hard to respect christians....they use the bible when it convenient. and they never answer you on such issues
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