Or even worse, the fact that there are women who respond positively to advances made by such individuals.Murray wrote:What's even worse is when "gansta gansta's" treat women like trash and property while talking about their "booty's"
But if we talk about the male gender (sorry for drifting offtopic), I think there are many stereotypes around. As a young man, I often find that many look to label you as one of the two archetypes - either you're a "bad boy" (as those mentioned), or the "nice guy", the infinitely nice and shy individual who can and will get used by everyone, and will never have the confidence to make a move on a girl/woman (if the idiom I used is correct). I mean, what's wrong with being self-confident and nice? It's not like those two traits are mutually exclusive.
Although that's probably the only 100% safe method, it wouldn't even be necessary - there's been a variety of birth control products around these days, and it's defeating that many people don't (or won't) use them. And since they mention the "freedom of choice", they forget that the "unwanted" pregnancy was a result of a "free choice". The fact is that people choose whether or not to have sex (unless when sb is raped, but that's another story), and it's ironic that while some try to justify irresponsible sex with our alleged primal desires that need to be satisfied, when we talk about abortion, then we suddenly do have free choice.StMonicaGuideMe wrote:Short, I agree. It's just another bi-product mentality of a self-centered, WIMPY culture. But try telling a woman to keep her legs closed (as a woman myself, I've suggested it, and I've been ridiculed).
Finally, Monica, you put it well, that this culture is "wimpy". Many still don't understand that to sleep around doesn't mean to be free, but exactly the opposite - it means to be a slave of your hormones.