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Charming the ladies, how should I do it?

Posted: Wed Dec 09, 2015 2:43 pm
by Bluejay4
I mean my wit, natural sense of humor and intelligence is usually enough, but sometimes it isn't. Any advice? :ebiggrin:

Re: Charming the ladies, how should I do it?

Posted: Wed Dec 09, 2015 2:57 pm
by Furstentum Liechtenstein
Bluejay4 wrote:Any advice?
Be yourself. Be honest. Don't fake anything.

:teacher:

Re: Charming the ladies, how should I do it?

Posted: Wed Dec 09, 2015 3:02 pm
by Nessa
Bluejay4 wrote:I mean my wit, natural sense of humor and intelligence is usually enough, but sometimes it isn't. Any advice? :ebiggrin:
When they go :blah:
You listen y:-?

Let me know when you have got that part sorted and we can move on to the next stage ;)

Re: Charming the ladies, how should I do it?

Posted: Wed Dec 09, 2015 3:15 pm
by RickD
Bluejay4 wrote:I mean my wit, natural sense of humor and intelligence is usually enough, but sometimes it isn't. Any advice? :ebiggrin:
I've been married over 19 years. I still know nothing about women.

Sorry. :esad:


I guess I've gotten by on my rugged good looks up until now. :pound:

Re: Charming the ladies, how should I do it?

Posted: Wed Dec 09, 2015 3:39 pm
by Nessa
Bluejay4 wrote:I mean my wit, natural sense of humor and intelligence is usually enough, but sometimes it isn't. Any advice? :ebiggrin:
Stage two....

Hows your hair looking? y:-?
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Re: Charming the ladies, how should I do it?

Posted: Wed Dec 09, 2015 3:41 pm
by Storyteller
Bluejay4 wrote:I mean my wit, natural sense of humor and intelligence is usually enough, but sometimes it isn't. Any advice? :ebiggrin:
You've charmed me :)
Hang on, thats slightly creepy...

What I mean is if it isnt enough then its not meant to be. Be you.
Be honest, be true, dont pretend.

Most of all, believe you are special and you dont need to impress, if they get it, they get it, if they dont, their loss.

Re: Charming the ladies, how should I do it?

Posted: Wed Dec 09, 2015 3:42 pm
by Nessa
RickD wrote:
Bluejay4 wrote:I mean my wit, natural sense of humor and intelligence is usually enough, but sometimes it isn't. Any advice? :ebiggrin:
I've been married over 19 years. I still know nothing about women.

Sorry. :esad:


I guess I've gotten by on my rugged good looks up until now. :pound:
I can't believe I have been married longer than you :shock:
I feel soooo old :crying:

Re: Charming the ladies, how should I do it?

Posted: Wed Dec 09, 2015 3:46 pm
by Storyteller
Nessa wrote:
RickD wrote:
Bluejay4 wrote:I mean my wit, natural sense of humor and intelligence is usually enough, but sometimes it isn't. Any advice? :ebiggrin:
I've been married over 19 years. I still know nothing about women.

Sorry. :esad:


I guess I've gotten by on my rugged good looks up until now. :pound:
I can't believe I have been married longer than you :shock:
I feel soooo old :crying:
been with hubbs for 20, married 14. I still feel like a kid.

Re: Charming the ladies, how should I do it?

Posted: Wed Dec 09, 2015 5:15 pm
by Furstentum Liechtenstein
Forget what the ladies from NZ & the UK said. They're both old ladies and don't remember what it was like to be young. As for Rick, he's already admitted to not having a clue about women. So...listen to me:

1. No matter how much girls say they like a nice guy, that's a load of BS. Girls like bad boys (BB). You can be a Christian bad boy. You'll need tattoos, and a piercing. A good Christian BB tattoo would be a death head with a cross riveted to its skull. The piercing may be a large earring (a skull or a cross) or a dagger sticking out of your eyebrow.

2. BB don't have much to say, so shut up. Girls don't really want communication. They just want to hear themselves yakking. Pretend to listen, saying «yeah, you're right» every now and then.

3. Keep your hair clean but don't comb it.

4. Keep your clothes clean but don't iron anything.

5. Borrow your father's car. If you don't have a father, that's even better because girls like a sob story.

If I think of anything else, I'll let you know.

:twodancing:

Re: Charming the ladies, how should I do it?

Posted: Wed Dec 09, 2015 6:04 pm
by Nessa
Furstentum Liechtenstein wrote:Forget what the ladies from NZ & the UK said. They're both old ladies and don't remember what it was like to be young. As for Rick, he's already admitted to not having a clue about women. So...listen to me:

1. No matter how much girls say they like a nice guy, that's a load of BS. Girls like bad boys (BB). You can be a Christian bad boy. You'll need tattoos, and a piercing. A good Christian BB tattoo would be a death head with a cross riveted to its skull. The piercing may be a large earring (a skull or a cross) or a dagger sticking out of your eyebrow.

2. BB don't have much to say, so shut up. Girls don't really want communication. They just want to hear themselves yakking. Pretend to listen, saying «yeah, you're right» every now and then.

3. Keep your hair clean but don't comb it.

4. Keep your clothes clean but don't iron anything.

5. Borrow your father's car. If you don't have a father, that's even better because girls like a sob story.

If I think of anything else, I'll let you know.

:twodancing:
All boys are bad boys. Some are just more better at it than others.

Re: Charming the ladies, how should I do it?

Posted: Sat Dec 12, 2015 12:23 pm
by Bluejay4
Nessa wrote:
Bluejay4 wrote:I mean my wit, natural sense of humor and intelligence is usually enough, but sometimes it isn't. Any advice? :ebiggrin:
Stage two....

Hows your hair looking? y:-?
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Alright, it's decently long with curls.

Re: Charming the ladies, how should I do it?

Posted: Sat Dec 12, 2015 1:04 pm
by Nessa
Bluejay4 wrote:
Nessa wrote:
Bluejay4 wrote:I mean my wit, natural sense of humor and intelligence is usually enough, but sometimes it isn't. Any advice? :ebiggrin:
Stage two....

Hows your hair looking? y:-?
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Alright, it's decently long with curls.
Good, will come in handy if you ever find yourself locked in a tall tower by a wicked queen with no way to escape :mrgreen:

Re: Charming the ladies, how should I do it?

Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2016 12:56 pm
by Audie
Here is a radical concept: How about a guy who is educated, responsible, knows
how to behave in public, and makes good money.

Your FL type bad-boy pos gets zero respect from me.

Re: Charming the ladies, how should I do it?

Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2016 1:19 pm
by Nessa
Audie wrote:Here is a radical concept: How about a guy who is educated, responsible, knows
how to behave in public, and makes good money.

Your FL type bad-boy pos gets zero respect from me.
Radical? y:-?

Knows how to behave in public - not for me, cos often that means conforming to how society thinks we should behave. King david danced and leaped before God and looked like a fool. But he was willing to humiliate himself in public and even his own eyes, for the love of his God.

Good money - Money helps but I see the attitude of some people who dont earn well and they are some of the most generous givers around. They live to bless and are rich in heart.

Education - that can help too, but is it a must? To me things like honesty, intregrity, love, hard work, authenticity etc are much more desirable

Responsible - yes!

That is what I call radical in the eyes of this world

Re: Charming the ladies, how should I do it?

Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2016 11:20 pm
by Furstentum Liechtenstein
Audie wrote:Here is a radical concept: How about a guy who is educated, responsible, knows
how to behave in public, and makes good money.

Your FL type bad-boy pos gets zero respect from me.
I'm smart, responsible, presentable AND financially secure but women don't give me a second look.... (unless they're drunk. )

Women who prefer men prefer bad boys. You don't know what you're talking about...

:wave: