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by Nessa » Mon Jan 04, 2016 11:27 pm
Furstentum Liechtenstein wrote:Audie wrote:Here is a radical concept: How about a guy who is educated, responsible, knows
how to behave in public, and makes good money.
Your FL type bad-boy pos gets zero respect from me.
I'm smart, responsible, presentable AND financially secure but women don't give me a second look.... (unless they're drunk. )
Women who prefer men prefer bad boys. You don't know what you're talking about...
Women prefer bad boys they can change
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by melanie » Tue Jan 05, 2016 6:38 am
Furstentum Liechtenstein wrote:Audie wrote:Here is a radical concept: How about a guy who is educated, responsible, knows
how to behave in public, and makes good money.
Your FL type bad-boy pos gets zero respect from me.
I'm smart, responsible, presentable AND financially secure but women don't give me a second look.... (unless they're drunk. )
Women who prefer men prefer bad boys. You don't know what you're talking about...
Don't be daft FL
Women don't give you a second look because well you're old and married
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by melanie » Tue Jan 05, 2016 6:56 am
For me personally the bad boy thing was old.
I had taken that path and they were twats.
Money meant very little to me
Then I met my husband, don't get me wrong he can be an A hole at times but I had never met anyone like him.
He intrigued me.
He was a gentlemen.
We were teenagers and I saw him carry shopping bags to elderly ladies cars, carry strollers up stairs for mums, just a bloody good bloke who was willing to help.
That captured me.
It made me think about the extent of his chatacter, the kind of Dad he would be. It didn't take me long to fall for him big time.
Decency and old school values is a turn on.
Maybe not to everyone but to those who reciprocate those values its priceless.
A bad boy isn't what it's cracked up to be
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by Audie » Tue Jan 05, 2016 11:02 am
The name says it all. Not a man, and no good.
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by abelcainsbrother » Tue Jan 05, 2016 5:02 pm
Nessa wrote:Audie wrote:Here is a radical concept: How about a guy who is educated, responsible, knows
how to behave in public, and makes good money.
Your FL type bad-boy pos gets zero respect from me.
Radical?
Knows how to behave in public - not for me, cos often that means conforming to how society thinks we should behave. King david danced and leaped before God and looked like a fool. But he was willing to humiliate himself in public and even his own eyes, for the love of his God.
Good money - Money helps but I see the attitude of some people who dont earn well and they are some of the most generous givers around. They live to bless and are rich in heart.
Education - that can help too, but is it a must? To me things like honesty, intregrity, love, hard work, authenticity etc are much more desirable
Responsible - yes!
That is what I call radical in the eyes of this world
Dancing with the ark. For you,since you brought up King David dancing.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Y7KrBWs3vY
Hebrews 12:2-3 Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith;who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross,despising the shame,and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.
2nd Corinthians 4:4 In whom the god of this world hath blinded the minds of them which believe not,lest the light of this glorious gospel of Christ,who is the image of God,should shine unto them.
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by Nessa » Tue Jan 12, 2016 11:32 pm
Don't forget eye contact
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by Furstentum Liechtenstein » Sun Jan 17, 2016 6:27 pm
Bluejay,
Please forget all the advice those old married women gave you about charming the ladies. It will only embarrass you at best. And that YouTube clip suggested by Nessa is utterly useless in the real world ...unless you are an optometrist.
I have developed an easy to use system that is a sure-fire way to a lady's heart. It is easy to remember because it uses the acronym POLICE:
P ...is for Protection,
O ...is for Observe,
L ...is for Laud (a synonym of "to praise"),
I ...is for Identify,
C ...is for Candor (a synonym of "honesty") and,
E ...is for Evacuation.
I will reveal my secret on how to charm lovely damsels in a future post. For now, it is important that you consign to memory the acronym POLICE and the meaning of each letter.
Hold everything lightly. If you don't, it will hurt when God pries your fingers loose as He takes it from you. -Corrie Ten Boom
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by Nessa » Sun Jan 17, 2016 6:54 pm
Furstentum Liechtenstein wrote:Bluejay,
Please forget all the advice those old married women gave you about charming the ladies. It will only embarrass you at best. And that YouTube clip suggested by Nessa is utterly useless in the real world ...unless you are an optometrist.
I have developed an easy to use system that is a sure-fire way to a lady's heart. It is easy to remember because it uses the acronym POLICE:
P ...is for Protection,
O ...is for Observe,
L ...is for Laud (a synonym of "to praise"),
I ...is for Identify,
C ...is for Candor (a synonym of "honesty") and,
E ...is for Evacuation.
I will reveal my secret on how to charm lovely damsels in a future post. For now, it is important that you consign to memory the acronym POLICE and the meaning of each letter.
Please FL, tell us more
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by RickD » Sun Jan 17, 2016 7:23 pm
Nessa wrote:Furstentum Liechtenstein wrote:Bluejay,
Please forget all the advice those old married women gave you about charming the ladies. It will only embarrass you at best. And that YouTube clip suggested by Nessa is utterly useless in the real world ...unless you are an optometrist.
I have developed an easy to use system that is a sure-fire way to a lady's heart. It is easy to remember because it uses the acronym POLICE:
P ...is for Protection,
O ...is for Observe,
L ...is for Laud (a synonym of "to praise"),
I ...is for Identify,
C ...is for Candor (a synonym of "honesty") and,
E ...is for Evacuation.
I will reveal my secret on how to charm lovely damsels in a future post. For now, it is important that you consign to memory the acronym POLICE and the meaning of each letter.
Please FL, tell us more
Why Nessa? Are you trying to charm the ladies too?
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by Nessa » Sun Jan 17, 2016 8:47 pm
Remembering POLICE really works in two ways....
Cos it also comes in handy for all the creepy guys that try to charm you or try to message you cos they want to charm someone else that your friends with
Aye, tricky ricky
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by Nessa » Mon Jan 18, 2016 1:15 pm
Bluejay never actually reported back if any of our advice helped?
I mean for all we know he could be engaged by now
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by IceMobster » Mon Jan 18, 2016 2:32 pm
Nessa wrote:Bluejay never actually reported back if any of our advice helped?
I mean for all we know he could be engaged by now
If he had followed FL's advice, I don't think it went well.
Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil, for You are with me.
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by Furstentum Liechtenstein » Mon Jan 18, 2016 5:04 pm
IceMobster wrote:Nessa wrote:Bluejay never actually reported back if any of our advice helped?
I mean for all we know he could be engaged by now
If he had followed FL's advice, I don't think it went well.
Back in your cage, IceLobster.
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by Bluejay4 » Mon Jan 18, 2016 8:27 pm
Instructions unclear now I'm engaged to my dog.
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by Bluejay4 » Mon Jan 18, 2016 8:27 pm
Audie wrote:The name says it all. Not a man, and no good.
What are you trying to imply?
“I fear no man. If you breathe oxygen, I do not fear you.” – Conor McGregor
"Of David. The LORD is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The LORD is the stronghold of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?" - Psalms 27:1
