Charming the ladies, how should I do it?

[Nessa]

Here is a radical concept: How about a guy who is educated, responsible, knows
how to behave in public, and makes good money.

Your FL type bad-boy pos gets zero respect from me.

I'm smart, responsible, presentable AND financially secure but women don't give me a second look.... (unless they're drunk. )

Women who prefer men prefer bad boys. You don't know what you're talking about...

Women prefer bad boys they can change

[melanie]

Here is a radical concept: How about a guy who is educated, responsible, knows
how to behave in public, and makes good money.

Your FL type bad-boy pos gets zero respect from me.

I'm smart, responsible, presentable AND financially secure but women don't give me a second look.... (unless they're drunk. )

Women who prefer men prefer bad boys. You don't know what you're talking about...

Don't be daft FL
Women don't give you a second look because well you're old and married

[melanie]

For me personally the bad boy thing was old.
I had taken that path and they were twats.
Money meant very little to me
Then I met my husband, don't get me wrong he can be an A hole at times but I had never met anyone like him.
He intrigued me.
He was a gentlemen.
We were teenagers and I saw him carry shopping bags to elderly ladies cars, carry strollers up stairs for mums, just a bloody good bloke who was willing to help.
That captured me.
It made me think about the extent of his chatacter, the kind of Dad he would be. It didn't take me long to fall for him big time.
Decency and old school values is a turn on.
Maybe not to everyone but to those who reciprocate those values its priceless.
A bad boy isn't what it's cracked up to be

[Audie]

The name says it all. Not a man, and no good.

[abelcainsbrother]

Here is a radical concept: How about a guy who is educated, responsible, knows
how to behave in public, and makes good money.

Your FL type bad-boy pos gets zero respect from me.

Radical?

Knows how to behave in public - not for me, cos often that means conforming to how society thinks we should behave. King david danced and leaped before God and looked like a fool. But he was willing to humiliate himself in public and even his own eyes, for the love of his God.

Good money - Money helps but I see the attitude of some people who dont earn well and they are some of the most generous givers around. They live to bless and are rich in heart.

Education - that can help too, but is it a must? To me things like honesty, intregrity, love, hard work, authenticity etc are much more desirable

Responsible - yes!

That is what I call radical in the eyes of this world

Dancing with the ark. For you,since you brought up King David dancing.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Y7KrBWs3vY

[Nessa]

Don't forget eye contact

[Furstentum Liechtenstein]

Bluejay,

Please forget all the advice those old married women gave you about charming the ladies. It will only embarrass you at best. And that YouTube clip suggested by Nessa is utterly useless in the real world ...unless you are an optometrist.

I have developed an easy to use system that is a sure-fire way to a lady's heart. It is easy to remember because it uses the acronym POLICE:

P ...is for Protection,
O ...is for Observe,
L ...is for Laud (a synonym of "to praise"),
I ...is for Identify,
C ...is for Candor (a synonym of "honesty") and,
E ...is for Evacuation.

I will reveal my secret on how to charm lovely damsels in a future post. For now, it is important that you consign to memory the acronym POLICE and the meaning of each letter.

[Nessa]

Bluejay,

Please forget all the advice those old married women gave you about charming the ladies. It will only embarrass you at best. And that YouTube clip suggested by Nessa is utterly useless in the real world ...unless you are an optometrist.

I have developed an easy to use system that is a sure-fire way to a lady's heart. It is easy to remember because it uses the acronym POLICE:

P ...is for Protection,
O ...is for Observe,
L ...is for Laud (a synonym of "to praise"),
I ...is for Identify,
C ...is for Candor (a synonym of "honesty") and,
E ...is for Evacuation.

I will reveal my secret on how to charm lovely damsels in a future post. For now, it is important that you consign to memory the acronym POLICE and the meaning of each letter.

Please FL, tell us more

[Nessa]

Bluejay,

Please forget all the advice those old married women gave you about charming the ladies. It will only embarrass you at best. And that YouTube clip suggested by Nessa is utterly useless in the real world ...unless you are an optometrist.

I have developed an easy to use system that is a sure-fire way to a lady's heart. It is easy to remember because it uses the acronym POLICE:

P ...is for Protection,
O ...is for Observe,
L ...is for Laud (a synonym of "to praise"),
I ...is for Identify,
C ...is for Candor (a synonym of "honesty") and,
E ...is for Evacuation.

I will reveal my secret on how to charm lovely damsels in a future post. For now, it is important that you consign to memory the acronym POLICE and the meaning of each letter.

Please FL, tell us more

Why Nessa? Are you trying to charm the ladies too?

[Nessa]

Remembering POLICE really works in two ways....
Cos it also comes in handy for all the creepy guys that try to charm you or try to message you cos they want to charm someone else that your friends with


Aye, tricky ricky

[Nessa]

Bluejay never actually reported back if any of our advice helped?
I mean for all we know he could be engaged by now

[IceMobster]

Bluejay never actually reported back if any of our advice helped?
I mean for all we know he could be engaged by now

If he had followed FL's advice, I don't think it went well.

[Furstentum Liechtenstein]

Bluejay never actually reported back if any of our advice helped?
I mean for all we know he could be engaged by now

If he had followed FL's advice, I don't think it went well.

Back in your cage, IceLobster.

[Bluejay4]

Instructions unclear now I'm engaged to my dog.

[Bluejay4]

The name says it all. Not a man, and no good.

What are you trying to imply?