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Sexchangeregret.com

Posted: Tue Mar 15, 2016 1:15 pm
by RickD
I just happened upon this video today while searching YouTube.

I found it very interesting. I posted it here with the hope that it may help someone who is going through this issue, or has a family member or friend going through the issue of Gender identity and transgenderism.

This man, Walt Heyer, shows there is hope for those struggling with the issue. In fact, he counsels people who struggle with gender identity.

http://youtu.be/v7NYWd7p-zE

Re: Sexchangeregret.com

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 4:11 pm
by Kurieuo
Thanks Rick, this may have saved me from a bad decision. :pillows: :knitting:

Re: Sexchangeregret.com

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 4:29 pm
by Nessa
I wonder how much influence parents have on all this sorta stuff.

When my mum had me she was in tears she hadnt given dad a boy.. Like they just really really wanted a son and I wonder if in some ways thats affected me. And, to be really honest, I always felt something amiss.. Not that I wanna be male (perish the thought :shock: :P) but just not feeling 100% female at different times and fully embracing my femininity.

Re: Sexchangeregret.com

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 5:01 pm
by Nessa
Also I know of someone going through the change to become male though not sure how far they are taking it. She said her mum always felt she was different growing up but then I wonder if her mum then treated her different? And that conflicted things?

Re: Sexchangeregret.com

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 5:05 pm
by RickD
Kurieuo wrote:Thanks Rick, this may have saved me from a bad decision. :pillows: :knitting:
I think it's already too late for you. :mrgreen:

Re: Sexchangeregret.com

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 5:08 pm
by RickD
Nessa wrote:I wonder how much influence parents have on all this sorta stuff.

When my mum had me she was in tears she hadnt given dad a boy.. Like they just really really wanted a son and I wonder if in some ways thats affected me. And, to be really honest, I always felt something amiss.. Not that I wanna be male (perish the thought :shock: :P) but just not feeling 100% female at different times and fully embracing my femininity.
If it's any consolation, I don't feel 100% female either. And I've been told that I need to embrace my femininity too.

Re: Sexchangeregret.com

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 5:22 pm
by Nessa
RickD wrote:
Nessa wrote:I wonder how much influence parents have on all this sorta stuff.

When my mum had me she was in tears she hadnt given dad a boy.. Like they just really really wanted a son and I wonder if in some ways thats affected me. And, to be really honest, I always felt something amiss.. Not that I wanna be male (perish the thought :shock: :P) but just not feeling 100% female at different times and fully embracing my femininity.
If it's any consolation, I don't feel 100% female either. And I've been told that I need to embrace my femininity too.
We're on fire today... Keep 'em comin' :P

Re: Sexchangeregret.com

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 5:26 pm
by RickD
Nessa wrote:
RickD wrote:
Nessa wrote:I wonder how much influence parents have on all this sorta stuff.

When my mum had me she was in tears she hadnt given dad a boy.. Like they just really really wanted a son and I wonder if in some ways thats affected me. And, to be really honest, I always felt something amiss.. Not that I wanna be male (perish the thought :shock: :P) but just not feeling 100% female at different times and fully embracing my femininity.
If it's any consolation, I don't feel 100% female either. And I've been told that I need to embrace my femininity too.
We're on fire today... Keep 'em comin' :P
On fire? Must be having hot flashes.

Re: Sexchangeregret.com

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 5:29 pm
by Nessa
Maybe kurieuo could give you some lessons on how to listen, rick... :P

So do you reckon jacob was effeminate? Yet he was the one blessed ;)

Re: Sexchangeregret.com

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 5:33 pm
by Nessa
RickD wrote:
Nessa wrote:
RickD wrote:
Nessa wrote:I wonder how much influence parents have on all this sorta stuff.

When my mum had me she was in tears she hadnt given dad a boy.. Like they just really really wanted a son and I wonder if in some ways thats affected me. And, to be really honest, I always felt something amiss.. Not that I wanna be male (perish the thought :shock: :P) but just not feeling 100% female at different times and fully embracing my femininity.
If it's any consolation, I don't feel 100% female either. And I've been told that I need to embrace my femininity too.
We're on fire today... Keep 'em comin' :P
On fire? Must be having hot flashes.
So cruel :crying:

Re: Sexchangeregret.com

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 6:20 pm
by Philip
Nessa: "And, to be really honest, I always felt something amiss.. Not that I wanna be male (perish the thought :shock: :P) but just not feeling 100% female at different times and fully embracing my femininity."
That explains the clown avatar! :lol: Is that a boy or a girl? y:-? Confusing, yes?

Re: Sexchangeregret.com

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 6:21 pm
by RickD
Nessa wrote:Maybe kurieuo could give you some lessons on how to listen, rick... :P

So do you reckon jacob was effeminate? Yet he was the one blessed ;)
Jacob wrestled with God, and from what I read, put up a pretty good fight. Doesn't sound like he was effeminate.


And what was the other thing you said? I wasn't listening.

Re: Sexchangeregret.com

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 6:35 pm
by Nessa
RickD wrote:
Nessa wrote:Maybe kurieuo could give you some lessons on how to listen, rick... :P

So do you reckon jacob was effeminate? Yet he was the one blessed ;)
Jacob wrestled with God, and from what I read, put up a pretty good fight. Doesn't sound like he was effeminate.


And what was the other thing you said? I wasn't listening.
He also stayed home and cooked instead of hunting.... Was a lot less hairy too :P

EDIT: have you never seem women fight over an item in a shop when there is a sale :shakehead:

Re: Sexchangeregret.com

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 6:38 pm
by Nessa
Philip wrote:
Nessa: "And, to be really honest, I always felt something amiss.. Not that I wanna be male (perish the thought :shock: :P) but just not feeling 100% female at different times and fully embracing my femininity."
That explains the clown avatar! :lol: Is that a boy or a girl? y:-? Confusing, yes?
Such a safe place to share ones most intimate thoughts..


:fryingpan:

Re: Sexchangeregret.com

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 6:44 pm
by Nessa
RickD wrote:
Nessa wrote:I wonder how much influence parents have on all this sorta stuff.

When my mum had me she was in tears she hadnt given dad a boy.. Like they just really really wanted a son and I wonder if in some ways thats affected me. And, to be really honest, I always felt something amiss.. Not that I wanna be male (perish the thought :shock: :P) but just not feeling 100% female at different times and fully embracing my femininity.
If it's any consolation, I don't feel 100% female either. And I've been told that I need to embrace my femininity too.
Better be fair...

:fryingpan: