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- Tue Jun 09, 2020 6:10 pm
- Forum: General Discussion & Introductions
- Topic: Forgiveness without repentance?
- Replies: 13
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Re: Forgiveness without repentance?
Oh well, I guess I will give up looking for a loop hole then that gets me out of forgiving him :lol: But seriously, it's not just about me. He does workshops around NZ teaching other psychologists and is in full time private practice. He really isn't accountable to anyone here apart from God and he ...
- Mon Jun 08, 2020 7:46 pm
- Forum: General Discussion & Introductions
- Topic: Forgiveness without repentance?
- Replies: 13
- Views: 7293
Re: Forgiveness without repentance?
God had every right to assert His covenant people admit their sins - but we are not God. Forgiveness doesn't mean we forget, only that we forgive. And forgiveness frees one from harboring and obsessing over people's sin against us. It is effectively freeing, even if the transgressor remains unrepen...
- Mon Jun 08, 2020 7:18 pm
- Forum: General Discussion & Introductions
- Topic: Forgiveness without repentance?
- Replies: 13
- Views: 7293
Re: Forgiveness without repentance?
Also it's not just about repentance but there is no actual acknowledgement of wrong doing. So many times in the OT, God seems to say something like 'If only you would acknowledge what you have done' etc. My problem is the complete denial of actual events that took place or words said. Not just that ...
- Mon Jun 08, 2020 7:11 pm
- Forum: General Discussion & Introductions
- Topic: Forgiveness without repentance?
- Replies: 13
- Views: 7293
Forgiveness without repentance?
This whole complaint experience has left me thinking about forgiveness.
I always assumed that for a Christian, forgiveness is unconditional but is it?
At the moment reading through..
https://www.biola.edu/blogs/good-book-b ... nce-part-1
I always assumed that for a Christian, forgiveness is unconditional but is it?
At the moment reading through..
https://www.biola.edu/blogs/good-book-b ... nce-part-1
- Sun Jun 07, 2020 6:21 pm
- Forum: Prayer Requests
- Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
- Replies: 37
- Views: 10657
Re: Being lied about in a complaint
Nessa, any news from the district health board about the status of your case? Thanks for asking. I have had to withdraw from this point from being directly involved. Everything I have submitted still stands but my current therapist will take over. She is the one who originally made the complaint. S...
- Wed May 27, 2020 7:56 am
- Forum: Prayer Requests
- Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
- Replies: 37
- Views: 10657
Re: Being lied about in a complaint
When I went into private practice with them from public, they up lifted stuff I wrote. About 80 hard copy pages. Claimed them as their own property. Didn't make copies and took the originals that belonged in my public health file. Now it looks like it's too late to go the privacy comissioner cause ...
- Tue May 26, 2020 11:50 pm
- Forum: Prayer Requests
- Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
- Replies: 37
- Views: 10657
Re: Being lied about in a complaint
Your mum is a he AND a therapist?
Now that IS disturbing

- Tue May 26, 2020 11:47 pm
- Forum: Prayer Requests
- Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
- Replies: 37
- Views: 10657
Re: Being lied about in a complaint
They were all real letters in envelopes delieved to reception but did become a part of therapy as a by product
- Tue May 26, 2020 11:44 pm
- Forum: Prayer Requests
- Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
- Replies: 37
- Views: 10657
Re: Being lied about in a complaint
When I went into private practice with them from public, they up lifted stuff I wrote. About 80 hard copy pages. Claimed them as their own property. Didn't make copies and took the originals that belonged in my public health file. Now it looks like it's too late to go the privacy comissioner cause a...
- Tue May 26, 2020 11:31 pm
- Forum: Prayer Requests
- Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
- Replies: 37
- Views: 10657
Re: Being lied about in a complaint
Funny haha
- Sun May 24, 2020 11:41 pm
- Forum: Prayer Requests
- Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
- Replies: 37
- Views: 10657
Re: Being lied about in a complaint
A classic tactic many doctors use against patients they either no longer want to treat or wish to deflect criticisms of whatever improper treatment is to accuse them of some psychiatric issue. It's like the favorite weapon of politicians that accuse others of racism - it's designed to sow doubt ove...
- Sun May 24, 2020 2:29 pm
- Forum: Prayer Requests
- Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
- Replies: 37
- Views: 10657
Re: Being lied about in a complaint
Yep, wonder if they have heard this song?

- Sun May 24, 2020 5:08 am
- Forum: Prayer Requests
- Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
- Replies: 37
- Views: 10657
Re: Being lied about in a complaint
Then diagnosed me with being narcissistic :econfused: Do you have proof of this as an actual diagnosis? If you do, I would think that you could use this in your complaint. I don’t think they can just make a random diagnosis without merit. Sounds like they didn’t like being complained about, so they...
- Sun May 24, 2020 1:17 am
- Forum: Prayer Requests
- Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
- Replies: 37
- Views: 10657
Re: Being lied about in a complaint
I will say it's to do with a psychologist so one of the worst ways to be gaslighted and lied about. My current therapist is really supportive and we are making the complaint together. It's a long process but it's helping me learn to stand up for myself. The psychologist doesn't believe they did anyt...
- Sat May 23, 2020 6:32 pm
- Forum: Prayer Requests
- Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
- Replies: 37
- Views: 10657
Being lied about in a complaint
I made a serious complaint against a professional and their first response back has been to lie and deny.
Please pray for truth to prevail
Thanks guys
Please pray for truth to prevail
Thanks guys