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by Nessa
Tue Jun 30, 2020 5:43 pm
Forum: Politics and World Events
Topic: So Hortense sent me a PM.
Replies: 21
Views: 2185

Re: So Hortense sent me a PM.

The fact that Ed wanted to expose something or someone is neither here or there. I can understand why he wanted to make this public as he might have also been concerned for others. However, the best approach, as even advised many times by mods themselves, is to go to them first. I personally think, ...
by Nessa
Tue Jun 30, 2020 5:05 pm
Forum: Politics and World Events
Topic: So Hortense sent me a PM.
Replies: 21
Views: 2185

Re: So Hortense sent me a PM.

:goodpost: I couldn't agree more, to be honest
by Nessa
Tue Jun 30, 2020 12:39 am
Forum: Friendly Chit-Chat
Topic: Chapel In The Sky
Replies: 6
Views: 1085

Re: Chapel In The Sky

Fliegender wrote:
Mon Jun 29, 2020 4:26 pm
That church doesn’t even have a parking lot...you won’t see me there.
Oh, perhaps I'll go then :lol:
by Nessa
Thu Jun 11, 2020 5:46 pm
Forum: General Discussion & Introductions
Topic: Forgiveness without repentance?
Replies: 13
Views: 1623

Re: Forgiveness without repentance?

Yeah, you guys are right. It's just hard and diffinetly a process to work through.

I think the real issue is that I struggle to trust God with it so it makes it hard to let go.
by Nessa
Tue Jun 09, 2020 6:10 pm
Forum: General Discussion & Introductions
Topic: Forgiveness without repentance?
Replies: 13
Views: 1623

Re: Forgiveness without repentance?

Oh well, I guess I will give up looking for a loop hole then that gets me out of forgiving him :lol: But seriously, it's not just about me. He does workshops around NZ teaching other psychologists and is in full time private practice. He really isn't accountable to anyone here apart from God and he ...
by Nessa
Mon Jun 08, 2020 7:46 pm
Forum: General Discussion & Introductions
Topic: Forgiveness without repentance?
Replies: 13
Views: 1623

Re: Forgiveness without repentance?

God had every right to assert His covenant people admit their sins - but we are not God. Forgiveness doesn't mean we forget, only that we forgive. And forgiveness frees one from harboring and obsessing over people's sin against us. It is effectively freeing, even if the transgressor remains unrepen...
by Nessa
Mon Jun 08, 2020 7:18 pm
Forum: General Discussion & Introductions
Topic: Forgiveness without repentance?
Replies: 13
Views: 1623

Re: Forgiveness without repentance?

Also it's not just about repentance but there is no actual acknowledgement of wrong doing. So many times in the OT, God seems to say something like 'If only you would acknowledge what you have done' etc. My problem is the complete denial of actual events that took place or words said. Not just that ...
by Nessa
Mon Jun 08, 2020 7:11 pm
Forum: General Discussion & Introductions
Topic: Forgiveness without repentance?
Replies: 13
Views: 1623

Forgiveness without repentance?

This whole complaint experience has left me thinking about forgiveness.

I always assumed that for a Christian, forgiveness is unconditional but is it?

At the moment reading through..


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by Nessa
Sun Jun 07, 2020 6:21 pm
Forum: Prayer Requests
Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
Replies: 23
Views: 3110

Re: Being lied about in a complaint

Nessa, any news from the district health board about the status of your case? Thanks for asking. I have had to withdraw from this point from being directly involved. Everything I have submitted still stands but my current therapist will take over. She is the one who originally made the complaint. S...
by Nessa
Wed May 27, 2020 7:56 am
Forum: Prayer Requests
Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
Replies: 23
Views: 3110

Re: Being lied about in a complaint

When I went into private practice with them from public, they up lifted stuff I wrote. About 80 hard copy pages. Claimed them as their own property. Didn't make copies and took the originals that belonged in my public health file. Now it looks like it's too late to go the privacy comissioner cause ...
by Nessa
Tue May 26, 2020 11:50 pm
Forum: Prayer Requests
Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
Replies: 23
Views: 3110

Re: Being lied about in a complaint

Kurieuo wrote:
Tue May 26, 2020 8:26 am
Nessa wrote:
Sat May 23, 2020 6:32 pm
I made a serious complaint against a professional and their first response back has been to lie and deny.

Please pray for truth to prevail

Thanks guys 😊
I didn't know my mum was in NZ? y:-?
Your mum is a he AND a therapist?

Now that IS disturbing :lol:
by Nessa
Tue May 26, 2020 11:47 pm
Forum: Prayer Requests
Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
Replies: 23
Views: 3110

Re: Being lied about in a complaint

They were all real letters in envelopes delieved to reception but did become a part of therapy as a by product
by Nessa
Tue May 26, 2020 11:44 pm
Forum: Prayer Requests
Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
Replies: 23
Views: 3110

Re: Being lied about in a complaint

When I went into private practice with them from public, they up lifted stuff I wrote. About 80 hard copy pages. Claimed them as their own property. Didn't make copies and took the originals that belonged in my public health file. Now it looks like it's too late to go the privacy comissioner cause a...
by Nessa
Tue May 26, 2020 11:31 pm
Forum: Prayer Requests
Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
Replies: 23
Views: 3110

Re: Being lied about in a complaint

Funny haha
by Nessa
Sun May 24, 2020 11:41 pm
Forum: Prayer Requests
Topic: Being lied about in a complaint
Replies: 23
Views: 3110

Re: Being lied about in a complaint

A classic tactic many doctors use against patients they either no longer want to treat or wish to deflect criticisms of whatever improper treatment is to accuse them of some psychiatric issue. It's like the favorite weapon of politicians that accuse others of racism - it's designed to sow doubt ove...