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by Nicki
Thu Nov 07, 2019 9:59 pm
Forum: Christian Chit-chat
Topic: Rejection :(
Replies: 66
Views: 3413

Re: Rejection :(

Nicki, being honest does NOT mean we broadcast all of our thoughts to immature people who don't have such values. Don't set yourself up. It's almost as if you don't work things out to where things are relaxed and normal with the guy, that you'll otherwise be miserable and upset. And THAT is YOU giv...
by Nicki
Thu Nov 07, 2019 9:28 pm
Forum: Christian Chit-chat
Topic: Rejection :(
Replies: 66
Views: 3413

Re: Rejection :(

Are you saying someone can't like someone else more than their spouse, or that just isn't the way it should be? You think so? I don't know - I would have thought your spouse should be your number 1 person, of the opposite sex at least. Of course you can't really help it if you meet someone you happ...
by Nicki
Thu Nov 07, 2019 9:11 pm
Forum: Christian Chit-chat
Topic: Rejection :(
Replies: 66
Views: 3413

Re: Rejection :(

The reality is you may feel you like him better but that's not based on truth. You don't know this guy. Not really. So it's based on a bit of fantasy. That makes it easier to see him in a better light. Yes, that's what I was thinking. Of course I haven't been liking him much lately, but he used to ...
by Nicki
Wed Nov 06, 2019 6:45 am
Forum: Christian Chit-chat
Topic: Rejection :(
Replies: 66
Views: 3413

Re: Rejection :(

Well, at least when he turned to go into the men's room, you didn't open the door and follow in right after him. :P :D He probably loves the fact you're pursuing him, gets a thrill from trying to make you feel more and more awkward. It does sound very socially awkward the situation, don't you think...
by Nicki
Tue Nov 05, 2019 10:26 pm
Forum: Prayer Requests
Topic: Prayers about work
Replies: 37
Views: 5481

Re: Prayers about work

So, another year on... things have definitely turned around. I've had on my desktop wallpaper the past year or so: godwonthelpyou.jpg There was a bit of ground work with the new business venture. Actually, almost immediately after I posted last things went bad with a main business I'd partnered wit...
by Nicki
Tue Nov 05, 2019 10:13 pm
Forum: Christian Chit-chat
Topic: Rejection :(
Replies: 66
Views: 3413

Re: Rejection :(

Rick is probably right, that there is a powerful hormonal element to this. I've experienced this with my wife. Often, she'd just wake up anxiety ridden or upset over things I pay no attention to. I will say that eating a healthy diet and getting at least 7 to 8 hours of sleep is hugely important. W...
by Nicki
Mon Nov 04, 2019 8:53 pm
Forum: Christian Chit-chat
Topic: Rejection :(
Replies: 66
Views: 3413

Re: Rejection :(

I'm really in a bad place at the moment. I'm going to see my counsellor but she's not free at a good time for me for another two weeks. I'm wondering if I need to see the doctor and go on some medication as well. I've never thought I was prone to depression though because when I feel really down it'...
by Nicki
Thu Oct 31, 2019 1:47 am
Forum: The Bible and Scripture
Topic: Quick answers about Bible
Replies: 94
Views: 28124

Re: Quick answers about Bible

So even if it's a fictional story in fansaty world it should be a no? yea, I didn't feel right about it either. So I abandoned it. Were you writing a story like that? That might not be a good idea since you would be involving yourself in it deeply and thinking about it a lot. Just reading something...
by Nicki
Thu Oct 31, 2019 1:33 am
Forum: Christian Testimonies
Topic: My journey
Replies: 502
Views: 58030

Re: My journey

I hear what you're saying. Okay, Fooz isn't a Christian but he isn't a non believer either. Fooz is a good man, he would rather be right than happy. His ethics and morals are more in line with the teaching of Christ than a lot of Christians i know. I know, absolutely, in my soul that him and i bein...
by Nicki
Sat Oct 26, 2019 12:20 am
Forum: Christian Chit-chat
Topic: Rejection :(
Replies: 66
Views: 3413

Re: Rejection :(

Nicki, the active ingredient in Benadryl diphenhydramine HCl (it's an over the counter allergy pill, but many use it to help sleep). If you can, find a generic version, as it will be somewhat cheaper. NIcki, WHO cares what that fellow - or any fellow - thinks? And did you ever stop to think that he...
by Nicki
Wed Oct 23, 2019 7:24 am
Forum: Christian Chit-chat
Topic: Rejection :(
Replies: 66
Views: 3413

Re: Rejection :(

Nicki, as well, we often set ourselves up by having expectations of people behaving or reacting to us in a certain way - but when the response is, instead, negative and hurtful, well, it hurts us. Feelings are immensely powerful. It's also important to realize that if people don't have your Christi...
by Nicki
Mon Oct 21, 2019 9:33 pm
Forum: Christian Chit-chat
Topic: Rejection :(
Replies: 66
Views: 3413

Re: Rejection :(

Thanks, Rick and Annette - that's the risk I take posting on an open forum though. Some things have to be taken with a grain of salt. Anyway, things were no better today :( I'm feeling as if I haven't got very far in life, when I'm getting all upset again over the way someone's treating me at work ...
by Nicki
Mon Oct 21, 2019 7:06 am
Forum: Christian Chit-chat
Topic: Rejection :(
Replies: 66
Views: 3413

Re: Rejection :(

Thanks, Rick and Annette - that's the risk I take posting on an open forum though. Some things have to be taken with a grain of salt. Anyway, things were no better today :( I'm feeling as if I haven't got very far in life, when I'm getting all upset again over the way someone's treating me at work o...
by Nicki
Sun Oct 20, 2019 7:31 am
Forum: Christian Chit-chat
Topic: Rejection :(
Replies: 66
Views: 3413

Re: Rejection :(

I think you need to make sure you are being totally honest with yourself about wanting to be just friends. Logically that may be true due to being married but emotionally it may not be true at all. He seems to really affect you and if he did return the warmness you have given, then I would see it a...
by Nicki
Sun Oct 20, 2019 6:58 am
Forum: Christian Chit-chat
Topic: Rejection :(
Replies: 66
Views: 3413

Re: Rejection :(

I think you need to make sure you are being totally honest with yourself about wanting to be just friends. Logically that may be true due to being married but emotionally it may not be true at all. He seems to really affect you and if he did return the warmness you have given, then I would see it a...