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Re: Being lied about in a complaint

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Post by Nessa » Tue May 26, 2020 11:47 pm

They were all real letters in envelopes delieved to reception but did become a part of therapy as a by product

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Re: Being lied about in a complaint

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Post by Nessa » Tue May 26, 2020 11:50 pm

Kurieuo wrote:
Tue May 26, 2020 8:26 am
Nessa wrote:
Sat May 23, 2020 6:32 pm
I made a serious complaint against a professional and their first response back has been to lie and deny.

Please pray for truth to prevail

Thanks guys 😊
I didn't know my mum was in NZ? y:-?
Your mum is a he AND a therapist?

Now that IS disturbing :lol:

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Re: Being lied about in a complaint

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Post by Kurieuo » Wed May 27, 2020 6:11 am

Nessa wrote:
Tue May 26, 2020 11:44 pm
When I went into private practice with them from public, they up lifted stuff I wrote. About 80 hard copy pages. Claimed them as their own property. Didn't make copies and took the originals that belonged in my public health file.

Now it looks like it's too late to go the privacy comissioner cause after a year. The district health board is investigating at least.

It was letters I wrote. He said they were a 'diary' with 'entries' and a 'therapy idea'. Such a liar :shock:

Then when the health and disability commissioner asked them to submit all communication between us, they added it as letters then lied about them being real letters!

Then has used private info in their first response against me from the 'diary'

Can they even do that? If they are just a 'diary' processed in private sessions, they can't also claim they are 'communication' between us.

The letters had like personal traumatic stuff in them not directly related to them. And they submitted it all.

And they don't even own them! The DHB most likely do.
Now I know why you stopped writing to me! :esad:
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Re: Being lied about in a complaint

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Post by Kurieuo » Wed May 27, 2020 6:14 am

Nessa wrote:
Tue May 26, 2020 11:50 pm
Kurieuo wrote:
Tue May 26, 2020 8:26 am
Nessa wrote:
Sat May 23, 2020 6:32 pm
I made a serious complaint against a professional and their first response back has been to lie and deny.

Please pray for truth to prevail

Thanks guys 😊
I didn't know my mum was in NZ? y:-?
Your mum is a he AND a therapist?

Now that IS disturbing :lol:
Is it any wonder why people become therapists when they're so confused?
"Whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved." (Romans 10:13)

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Re: Being lied about in a complaint

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Post by Nessa » Wed May 27, 2020 7:56 am

Kurieuo wrote:
Wed May 27, 2020 6:11 am
Nessa wrote:
Tue May 26, 2020 11:44 pm
When I went into private practice with them from public, they up lifted stuff I wrote. About 80 hard copy pages. Claimed them as their own property. Didn't make copies and took the originals that belonged in my public health file.

Now it looks like it's too late to go the privacy comissioner cause after a year. The district health board is investigating at least.

It was letters I wrote. He said they were a 'diary' with 'entries' and a 'therapy idea'. Such a liar :shock:

Then when the health and disability commissioner asked them to submit all communication between us, they added it as letters then lied about them being real letters!

Then has used private info in their first response against me from the 'diary'

Can they even do that? If they are just a 'diary' processed in private sessions, they can't also claim they are 'communication' between us.

The letters had like personal traumatic stuff in them not directly related to them. And they submitted it all.

And they don't even own them! The DHB most likely do.
Now I know why you stopped writing to me! :esad:
Safer writing my secrets to Australians! y#-o

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Re: Being lied about in a complaint

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Post by RickD » Wed May 27, 2020 9:05 am

Nessa wrote:
Wed May 27, 2020 7:56 am
Kurieuo wrote:
Wed May 27, 2020 6:11 am
Nessa wrote:
Tue May 26, 2020 11:44 pm
When I went into private practice with them from public, they up lifted stuff I wrote. About 80 hard copy pages. Claimed them as their own property. Didn't make copies and took the originals that belonged in my public health file.

Now it looks like it's too late to go the privacy comissioner cause after a year. The district health board is investigating at least.

It was letters I wrote. He said they were a 'diary' with 'entries' and a 'therapy idea'. Such a liar :shock:

Then when the health and disability commissioner asked them to submit all communication between us, they added it as letters then lied about them being real letters!

Then has used private info in their first response against me from the 'diary'

Can they even do that? If they are just a 'diary' processed in private sessions, they can't also claim they are 'communication' between us.

The letters had like personal traumatic stuff in them not directly related to them. And they submitted it all.

And they don't even own them! The DHB most likely do.
Now I know why you stopped writing to me! :esad:
Safer writing my secrets to Australians! British Criminals y#-o
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Re: Being lied about in a complaint

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Post by Philip » Sat Jun 06, 2020 6:56 pm

Nessa, any news from the district health board about the status of your case?

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Re: Being lied about in a complaint

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Post by Nessa » Sun Jun 07, 2020 6:21 pm

Philip wrote:
Sat Jun 06, 2020 6:56 pm
Nessa, any news from the district health board about the status of your case?
Thanks for asking.

I have had to withdraw from this point from being directly involved. Everything I have submitted still stands but my current therapist will take over. She is the one who originally made the complaint.

She needs to give a final response to the complaint by next friday. Then my ex therapist gets to respond one last time.

Then the HDC will either take no further action or formally investigate. At that stage, it is also passed back to the psychology board who can then do whatever they see fit to do. E.g do their own investigation.

At the moment the district health board are also investigating the letters to find out the ownership. Since he is denying they were real letters but that they were just a part of my public therapy, I am hoping they get taken off him. Then returned to my public health file.

He had uplifted all the letters from his public therapy office when he left the DHB job and went fully private.

This therapist has caused me more pain than anyone else in my life. He has now lied about me and caused so much hurt and I need to choose to forgive.

My mental health has greatly suffered especially since he won't admit to anything. Total professional abuse.

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Re: Being lied about in a complaint

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Post by Philip » Sun Jun 07, 2020 9:24 pm

Ness, don't Emotionally or mentally give that guy that kind of power over you. Let go Of it and let God deal with him - and forgive - it WORKS!
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