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Re: Loneliness

Postby Nessa » Sun Nov 19, 2017 7:25 pm

now I have do a 'acb'....


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Re: Loneliness

Postby Blessed » Mon Nov 20, 2017 12:27 am

Nessa wrote:blessed,

You sound bitter and judgemental. Also quite harsh...appearances can be deceiving. And what did Job do to deserve his misery?

Oh woe, is you...


:soap:
ok, rant over


sometimes appearances are decieving ... sometimes not



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Re: Loneliness

Postby Nessa » Mon Nov 20, 2017 1:22 am

Blessed wrote:
Nessa wrote:blessed,

You sound bitter and judgemental. Also quite harsh...appearances can be deceiving. And what did Job do to deserve his misery?

Oh woe, is you...


:soap:
ok, rant over


sometimes appearances are decieving ... sometimes not



:mrgreen:



Well, obviously we are expecting you to verify all these statements you are making about yourself.

You can start with a posting your picture... I'll let Rickd provide you with the IQ test......tho he can't actually provide you with any right answers so I'll have to mark it...

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Re: Loneliness

Postby Blessed » Mon Nov 20, 2017 1:30 am

Which statements? Never said I'm a male model. Just not interested in marrying the women I described. I'd rather suffer.

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Re: Loneliness

Postby Nessa » Mon Nov 20, 2017 2:51 am

Blessed wrote:Which statements? Never said I'm a male model. Just not interested in marrying the women I described. I'd rather suffer.

You said God only sent you rubbish women and that they are beneath you in looks.. intelligence and morality.

Maybe you don't understand how completely arrogant and self absorbed that sounds.

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Re: Loneliness

Postby Blessed » Mon Nov 20, 2017 3:57 am

Nessa wrote:
Blessed wrote:Which statements? Never said I'm a male model. Just not interested in marrying the women I described. I'd rather suffer.

You said God only sent you rubbish women and that they are beneath you in looks.. intelligence and morality.

Maybe you don't understand how completely arrogant and self absorbed that sounds.



Yes. I said that.

Well now that you put it like that..

I did say that out of anger and frustration. So I do apologize for that. I quarrel with God in my head about this and blame him for not sending me someone suitable. As far as I can tell these are the only types of women who approach me anymore.

This is the hell you go through when you remain unmarried. It's like musical chairs. The market dries up. It's even worse for women.

I mostly do not get approached by beautiful women anymore. When I do - they not nice or lacking in intelligence or morality. I do not think I have high standards. Sorry for turning this thread into a dating profile but to clarify:

1) Cute / someone I'm physically attracted to (does not have to be pretty or hot or beautiful just cute)
2) Believes in God
3) A nice person
4) Reasonable partner count if not a virgin
5) No Tattoos
6) No single mothers
7) Under 30 years old
8 ) White (preferrably)
9) No criminal record

That's pretty much it. Other than that I'm pretty open minded. I feel these are extremely reasonable basic things but apparently they are not today.

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Re: Loneliness

Postby melanie » Mon Nov 20, 2017 10:46 am

Oh Blessed I don't think the issue is with the women but with you....

I've asked God for help but all he does is send me rubbish women who are totally beneath me in looks, intelligence, and morality, I am very stubborn. I am not promiscious and despise promiscious people. I did not work so hard so long to be self employed with an upper six figure income - to marry some 35 year old, cocktail waitress, with 40 sexual partners, tattoos, and who believes in every single thing that is destroying Western civilization today. I am also not interested in dating outside my race - in any way shape or form.

Ughhh beneath you? Ugliness has many forms not many as striking as arrogance. The moment you place someone beneath you is the moment you out yourself. You haven't found a partner because of their flaws but because of your own.
There is one race, under God, the human race and to view your race (white) as perquisite to anything let alone love is strikingly devoid of anything even closely resembling Blessed. It's nasty in spirit and intention.
To place yourself above others is to leave yourself exposed in so many ways. You're Christian?
You follow Jesus? Not in lip service but in deed and action.
Quite frankly if you understood the message of Christ even remotely you would toss your preducice aside and gain some insight and love.
Your words are ugly, displaying an ugliness that far surpasses a whore, a promiscuous woman, a perceived lack in intelligence or someone beneath you.
You haven't found love to this point because God is doing every woman a favour to not know you.
Find your self respect and I've got a heads up it's not found in six figures then when you learn to honour yourself in truth you may have the maturity and decency to pass that onto another until then stay away from everyone else because you may be Blessed in name but not by nature!

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Re: Loneliness

Postby Blessed » Mon Nov 20, 2017 12:23 pm

melanie wrote:
Ughhh beneath you? Ugliness has many forms not many as striking as arrogance. The moment you place someone beneath you is the moment you out yourself. You haven't found a partner because of their flaws but because of your own.
There is one race, under God, the human race and to view your race (white) as perquisite to anything let alone love is strikingly devoid of anything even closely resembling Blessed. It's nasty in spirit and intention.
To place yourself above others is to leave yourself exposed in so many ways. You're Christian?
You follow Jesus? Not in lip service but in deed and action.
Quite frankly if you understood the message of Christ even remotely you would toss your preducice aside and gain some insight and love.
Your words are ugly, displaying an ugliness that far surpasses a whore, a promiscuous woman, a perceived lack in intelligence or someone beneath you.
You haven't found love to this point because God is doing every woman a favour to not know you.
Find your self respect and I've got a heads up it's not found in six figures then when you learn to honour yourself in truth you may have the maturity and decency to pass that onto another until then stay away from everyone else because you may be Blessed in name but not by nature!


I am not placing anyone beaneth me. Not in the way you make it sound.

I'm attracted to white women. If that's considered ugly now so be it. Funny thing is, if I was not white, and said I preferred white women, you'd give me advice and pointers and wish me well. I do not place myself "above" others in general, NO. I'm talking strictly in the context of marriage/sexual selection here.

I do not think I am "all that" whatsoever. Everyone has preferences dear. Perhaps you cannot afford to have any preferences? I'm not sure.


Just be happy you're married and don't have to deal with this in your 30's when all the good ones are taken.

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Re: Loneliness

Postby Nessa » Mon Nov 20, 2017 1:25 pm

Blessed wrote:
melanie wrote:
Ughhh beneath you? Ugliness has many forms not many as striking as arrogance. The moment you place someone beneath you is the moment you out yourself. You haven't found a partner because of their flaws but because of your own.
There is one race, under God, the human race and to view your race (white) as perquisite to anything let alone love is strikingly devoid of anything even closely resembling Blessed. It's nasty in spirit and intention.
To place yourself above others is to leave yourself exposed in so many ways. You're Christian?
You follow Jesus? Not in lip service but in deed and action.
Quite frankly if you understood the message of Christ even remotely you would toss your preducice aside and gain some insight and love.
Your words are ugly, displaying an ugliness that far surpasses a whore, a promiscuous woman, a perceived lack in intelligence or someone beneath you.
You haven't found love to this point because God is doing every woman a favour to not know you.
Find your self respect and I've got a heads up it's not found in six figures then when you learn to honour yourself in truth you may have the maturity and decency to pass that onto another until then stay away from everyone else because you may be Blessed in name but not by nature!


I am not placing anyone beaneth me. Not in the way you make it sound.

I'm attracted to white women. If that's considered ugly now so be it. Funny thing is, if I was not white, and said I preferred white women, you'd give me advice and pointers and wish me well. I do not place myself "above" others in general, NO. I'm talking strictly in the context of marriage/sexual selection here.

I do not think I am "all that" whatsoever. Everyone has preferences dear. Perhaps you cannot afford to have any preferences? I'm not sure.


Just be happy you're married and don't have to deal with this in your 30's when all the good ones are taken.


To say someone can't afford to have preferences is hitting well below the belt in my opinion.

And all the good ones are taken?

The grass is always greener on the other side isnt it... cause being married is always sooooooooooooooooo wonderful... :twodancing:

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Re: Loneliness

Postby Blessed » Mon Nov 20, 2017 1:48 pm

Nessa wrote:
Blessed wrote:
melanie wrote:
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To say someone can't afford to have preferences is hitting well below the belt in my opinion.

And all the good ones are taken?

The grass is always greener on the other side isnt it... cause being married is always sooooooooooooooooo wonderful... :twodancing:



Yes. Absolutely is greener. Like they say you don't know what you have until it's gone. Being married is wonderful. Flying solo is a destroyer. All I wanted was to get married to my high school sweethart. But she left me for an older guy with money.

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Re: Loneliness

Postby Nessa » Mon Nov 20, 2017 3:02 pm

Blessed wrote:
Nessa wrote:
Blessed wrote:
melanie wrote:
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To say someone can't afford to have preferences is hitting well below the belt in my opinion.

And all the good ones are taken?

The grass is always greener on the other side isnt it... cause being married is always sooooooooooooooooo wonderful... :twodancing:



Yes. Absolutely is greener. Like they say you don't know what you have until it's gone. Being married is wonderful. Flying solo is a destroyer. All I wanted was to get married to my high school sweethart. But she left me for an older guy with money.


Obviously you dont speak fluent in sarcasm... rickd could give you some tips.

Have you not read what Paul in the bible said about being single?

My guess is that even if you were married you would wish you were single. I dont think you get it.

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Re: Loneliness

Postby RickD » Mon Nov 20, 2017 3:12 pm

Blessed,

There was a time back in the early 1990's, when I was lonely. I wanted to find the right girl to meet, and eventually marry.

I prayed about it every night. And my prayer was for God to send the woman into my life that HE wanted for me. I conceded to God that He knew who was best for me, better than I could ever know. I trusted in Him. Then I met my wife. It was a blind date. I would've never chosen to meet someone on a blind date, but I trusted that God knew what I needed in a wife more than I knew.

And you know what else? She doesn't even make my sammiches. I make my own! y:O2
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Re: Loneliness

Postby Nessa » Mon Nov 20, 2017 3:40 pm

Rickd wrote:
And you know what else? She doesn't even make my sammiches. I make my own! y:O2


OMG, I knew it!! :esurprised:

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Re: Loneliness

Postby Nessa » Mon Nov 20, 2017 3:41 pm

You need to learn to be content either single or married.

Both have their pros and cons

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Re: Loneliness

Postby Kurieuo » Mon Nov 20, 2017 3:48 pm

Blessed, try looking for a woman in places that aren't casino or night life.

If you're attracting the wrong people, then it's likely you're going to the wrong places and projecting the wrong image. For example, if you want to attract women by the size of your wallet, then well, that's the type of women you'll get -- someone shallow who only wants your money and then skedattles along.

Besides your qualifications, which a guy should absolutely never reveal to other women (but it's alright for women to have theirs ;)), I think you need to focus upon yourself, who you are or want to be, and project that. For starters, it just doesn't seem like you're going to the right places if you're trying to find marriage material.
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